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10 Things You Need to Know About Life No One Tells You

Every day is a lesson, do you repeat the class?

Chris Freyler
2 min readJul 30, 2022
Photo by Juan Rumimpunu on Unsplash

I’m on the endless hunt of self-exploration. I put the question mark in a question when I start researching shit. If I find an answer, it never satisfies me in a sense, and I seek more and more information. At times I think it keeps me stuck.

I believe my obsession with self-awareness may be some form of a trauma response from childhood, but I am unsure. I am always on the hunt for ways to better myself and understand my past; at times, I feel as if it might keep me stuck.

Below is a list of 10 things I believe could benefit those on a similar path to mine.

  • Your biggest lessons will come from your most painful times in life. Not only that, you will likely repeat it time and time again.
  • You will have kids. They will have to sort through your trauma in life you didn’t heal before having them.
  • Marriage won’t change the person but can make the situation worse.
  • The money you blow now could be your nest egg in the future.
  • The beatings and verbal abuse you took as a kid will determine the partner you attract.
  • Health is more important than you think. And all the abuse you are…

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Chris Freyler
Chris Freyler

Written by Chris Freyler

Mistake Maker Extraordinaire .Writing from a place I don’t understand at times. I write to help myself, in return hope it helps you. Just another Quora guy.

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