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5 Destructive Signs In Every Covert Narcissist Relationship
If you can relate to 4 of the 5, RUN!
3 min readMar 18, 2022
I know, another Narcissist article, right? But these five signs could change everything if you are paying attention.
- Lovebomb: This is what hooks you to their manipulation. You will be their “one and only” the “chosen” one! They never felt like this about anyone else! Little do you know the death trap they are setting. They say the same thing to everyone, especially the one they run to after you piss them off.
- Gaslighting: This is where they make your fucking head spin, and you try and tell them “rationally” what bullshit they pulled and how you are trying to process it. The more you try to explain “rationally,” is the more “irrational” you will sound. AND you will sure as shit start second-guessing your reality. And most likely blaming yourself.
- Reactive Abuse: You know, they say something like; “Why can’t you just fucking believe me! I am doing all I can. I know I cheated and lied to you multiple fucking times but give me a god damn break, you lunatic!” Then what happens? You flip your shit! The god damn gaslighting, second-guessing yourself, their manipulation of you need to believe them, but they always end up fucking around with someone else! Then when you LOSE YOUR MIND, it’s understandable, but not…