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5 of The Most Relationship Damaging Traits of a Narcissist
The never ending cycle of delusion will keep you guessing for years.
3 min readMay 3, 2022
- Love bomb: This is what hooks you to their manipulation. You will be their “one and only” the “chosen” one! They never felt like this about anyone else! Little do you know the death trap you are being set up for. They say this to everyone, especially the one they run to after you piss them off.
- Gaslighting: This is where they make your fucking head spin, and you try and tell them “rationally” what bullshit they pulled and how you are trying to process it. The more you try to explain “rationally,” the more irrational you will become. AND you will sure as shit start second-guessing your reality. And most likely blaming yourself.
- Reactive Abuse: You know, they say something like this, “why can’t you just fucking believe me! I am doing all I can. I know I cheated and lied to you multiple times, but give me a god damn break, you lunatic!” Then what happens? You flip your shit! The god damn gaslighting, second-guessing yourself, their manipulation of you needing to believe them, but they always end up fucking around with someone else! And you FUCKING blow! And rightly so. It all sends you into a never-ending tailspin to hell.
- Vulnerability: This is more so for…
