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7 Important Signs You Know You Are Healing From Narcissistic Abuse

That’s the thing; most won’t unless they pay careful attention.

Chris Freyler
4 min readSep 24, 2022
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For years I thought I was healing. I thought I had it beat; I figured it out! My ex was a distant memory, and I actually found my soul mate this time! This girl was it!

Little did I know, she was more Covert than my previous ex. I had no idea. I believed all her words and didn’t believe her actions. I made excuses for the abuse she was dishing out in enormous amounts, and I couldn’t get enough of it. She told me everything I ever wanted to hear. She soothed every insecurity I ever had; I truly met the one!

Well, the one ended up being married, and the lies didn’t stop there. They kept building and building. And throw in, she fucked my best friend, that’s a true soul mate right there, quite the connection we had.

Below is a list I put together that will truly let you know you are healing. I always thought I was, but I love to talk and don’t take action, just like my ex.

I’m learning, and lesson was excruciating.

Their opinions, approval, or thoughts no longer matter.

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Chris Freyler
Chris Freyler

Written by Chris Freyler

Mistake Maker Extraordinaire .Writing from a place I don’t understand at times. I write to help myself, in return hope it helps you. Just another Quora guy.

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