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9 Important Pieces of Relationship Advice Everyone Should Know
It’s no secret relationships are tough, but healthy relationships begin with you.
I’ve spent the better part of the last 25 years in relationships with the wrong people. If you are a relationship hopper, kudos to you, it would exhaust me!
I’ve been in three long-term relationships and a handful of dates, meaning I can count them on one hand; odd, I know. I used to have a lot of regret from a failed marriage and another two failed relationships. But looking back, they put me on a path of lessons to learn about myself.
Without the dysfunction in the relationships, I wouldn’t be on the path I am today. It sure as shit hasn’t been easy. This last relationship was flat-out brutal, but I needed it. It was the most essential part of the transformation I am on in my life now.
I’ve learned a lot about myself in the last three years. The tricky part is putting into action what I learned to create the wisdom and avoid similar relationships in the future.
I’m OK with being single. It was scary at first, but I enjoyed my alone time most of the time. The most challenging part of life is listening to your intuition. It is always softly talking to you if you are paying attention; the only problem is…
