9 Subtle Signs You Are Still Experiencing Trauma Bond

Just when you think you have it beat, it resurfaces.

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If you are still struggling with trauma bond you need to start talking about your truth. Once you research it enough and know you are trauma bonded start speaking the truth.

You have to hear it out loud. You have to undo every manipulative thought the Narcissist has put in your mind. Undoing the mess is a daunting task, but can be done.

• You are still doing nice things for them. You are doing your best to help the person who delivered the most horrific manipulation.
• You’re still hanging onto hope. You believe their might be a chance with someone who lied, cheated and manipulated you for years. You think they might change still.
• You continue to trust people who are untrustworthy.
• You repeatedly try and show the abuser what they fail to see. You constantly seek validation from the person who delivered the abuse.
• You are still pulled in by the love bombing. The move bombing is the glue to the trauma bond. More dangerous than the discard. If you’re still falling for the love bombing you are trauma bonded. Once it breaks you will see the shallowness of everything.
• You still defend and justify the…