You don’t have to show it, just say it. — We have enough “content” creators out there telling us what we need to do to get where they got to, right? I think most of this “self help” shit online is complete and utter bullshit. They prey on the weak, and desperate to pad their own pockets, or reach a…

Go ahead, give them a ring. — The trauma bond from the god awful creature finally broke! You are in the free and clear, right? I wish. Ever since that warm day in August. when I was finally fucking done is when everything changed, but not for the better. If you heal “right” you are in for…

When the words you speak make you die inside. — My mouth is a purging contradiction. I’d do best to wear a muzzle most days, at least when my emotions take over. I’m impulsive, and speak what I call truth. But not everything I speak is true, well, maybe it is, but my delivery will go for the jugular if…

For one, 76% of all users on Tinder are men. — I don’t know if you’ve been on a dating app recently or ever. But I took a stab at it a few years ago with little success. I used the app Bumble. I spent a total of one month on the app. Here are my results At first, my expectations were low. Actually, I…

It could be miserable comfort, but it goes a little deeper than that. — You settled didn’t you? You got married, had kids, got the house, live for that 2–3 weeks vacation a year, you’re living the life baby! You are being a good little student of a life you were taught to live, but didn’t want. Yea, there are parts of your life…

Really, it depends on how you treat them. — Are they aware? Treated? Untreated? Are you a narcissists? Are you an abusive prick? If you abuse, manipulate, betray and treat them like hell. I’m sorry. No, really I am. You bit off more than you can chew. They will punish you for mistreating them. It won’t be pretty. Their…

The reality of the abuse begins to sink in. — Every narcissist’s abuse survivor prays for the day the dreaded Trauma Bond breaks. They cling to the hope they can get some form of semblance to what life was like before the abuse. But it doesn’t always go that way If you’ve spent months, maybe years, in the relationship, breaking the bond can be a frightening experience…

But you have to pay attention. Can you do that? — Yea, that person you see tweaking in Kingston, or Skid Row, they have a story. Some escape and create a new story, but unfortunately most stay in the same story on repeat. All addicts have a story Their story usually involves a childhood many wouldn’t survive, but they survive it through using. Using is their…

It doesn’t fee like it now, but it’s the best thing that can happen. — Put it this way. You may think you’ll be able to handle it “if” it happens. You may “think” you will say fuck that mother fucker, I’m gone! I deserve better. I’m outta of here when it happens! Almost daring them to do it so you can just get over…