Most have an agenda or are kind due to expectations. — It’s not that they’re rare; they are guarded. Most kind and wise people have no idea who they are. Being kind is easy, but some would beg to differ. It’s the wise part where the struggle comes into play. To become wise, you will have to go through some brutal…

They have a skewed view of what relationships are actually like. — That fairytale ending doesn’t always have a happy ending. Actually, it rarely does. “When Harry meets, Sally” doesn’t exist. Two people don’t happen to stumble into each other’s lives at the perfect time when shit is falling apart in their lives. It’s usually when you find a more covert type…

The honeymoon phase is temporary, remember that. — We’ve all had that “WTF” moment in a relationship. Questioning why, and how we found this person attractive in the first place. What led us to make such a poor choice in a dating partner. Here are 10 mistakes we all make at one time in our dating life you…

The self-help industry has most chasing a pipe dream in the wrong direction. — This is the million-dollar question. Everyone talks about it and says they are doing it but aren’t. There is no quick, easy way to tackle this challenging task. It’s hard as hell. I mean, look around. Everyone is escaping in some way. …

You want them to suffer just like you, but does it actually work? — It’s not about beating and hurting them. If you are the average person with empathy, it will do nothing but backfire on you. A Narcissist can do some very mean and hurtful things. The main issue many don’t think about is many stay with them long after they experienced the…

Here is a little bit of what a Narcissists “likes.” — That’s the biggest misconception about Narcissist abuse. They never “like” you. I mean, they think they “like” you. You want them to “like you,” but they never like you. Hell, it even feels like they “like” you. . Get my drift? They like the way you make them feel. They…

While alone time is good, isolation isn’t. — I used to think people could. But I don’t buy all the hype about the power of being alone, at least long term. There are studies that show you will live longer with human interaction, and good friends. …

Their actions tell you everything if you will stop listening. — I’m not sure what kind of relationship I was in, but all points to Narcissistic Abuse. I’ve had three therapists tell me it’s Narcissism. I’ve researched the better part of 4 years, and all my research points to Narcissism. And I still doubt myself at times. What’s the most challenging…

The complexity of human attraction is far more than physical appearance. — Research has shown that attraction can sneak up on us or take us by storm at first sight. Being drawn to good looks is the basic foundation of human attraction. We consciously or not seek partners who are similar in IQ, height, or appearance. A panel of studies has shown…