It’s easier to lose yourself in caring for others and forget your needs. — I’ve spent the last 20 years focusing on others for the better part of my 20 years. I especially had a hyper-focus on my past 3 exes. Focusing on others’ problems is much easier than addressing your own. It’s also a great way to project your character defects onto them…

The twisted love can only be experienced and not described. — I miss the illusion that never was, or was it? I miss the feeling of being understood and accepted. I miss how she would remove every insecurity I ever had only to turn around and create new ones I never knew existed. I miss being able to tell her anything…

I’m one of the few that ignore them and go with the flow. — There is no red flag that makes me stop talking to anyone. I love red flags; the more you show, the more you will have a chance to enter my life. I love when people act as if they love me, then turn around and give me the one-two knock-out…

Going in with low expectations is a good starting point. — I wouldn’t say just online but overall dating after you’ve experienced a manipulative relationship. It changes you. The thought of dating is no longer exciting. It takes a long time to get to know someone and longer for them to earn your trust. You are constantly alert, looking for discrepancies…

We all have that one person, even if they aren’t perfect. — I knew this guy. He was raised in a family of 9. His dad lost his business to a crooked partner, and from then on out, it was a struggle. He dropped out of school in 7th grade to help around the house and to do odd jobs to help…

The generation of the hustle. It’s here for the taking but is it? — I want to be a content creator! No, Wait! I want to be an influencer! No, fuck that. I want to be a life coach, that’s it. I know I can help people see what I don’t. But if I am good enough, I will look like I do and…

It’s common in other relationships, too, not just Narcissistic. — I guarantee you realized it. There’s this thing called “denial” many are consumed within every aspect of their life. It’s more comforting to live in denial than face the truth. You may not have known anything about Narcissism, but you probably knew something was off. You’ve conditioned yourself to ignore…

It’s a normal reaction to want revenge, but does it work? — It’s not about beating and hurting them. If you are the average person with empathy, it will do nothing but backfire on you. A Narcissist can do some very mean and hurtful things. The main issue many don’t think about is many stay with them long after they experienced the…

The fear of losing them may be too great to do this one simple thing. — You call them out on every fucking bit of hell they put you through. And if they don’t listen the first or second time, you keep screaming your truth. One thing you don’t do is back down. You keep spreading awareness about the hell these assholes bring to anyone they…