Really, it depends on how you treat them. — Are they aware? Treated? Untreated? Are you a narcissists? Are you an abusive prick? If you abuse, manipulate, betray and treat them like hell. I’m sorry. No, really I am. You bit off more than you can chew. They will punish you for mistreating them. It won’t be pretty. Their…

The reality of the abuse begins to sink in. — Every narcissist’s abuse survivor prays for the day the dreaded Trauma Bond breaks. They cling to the hope they can get some form of semblance to what life was like before the abuse. But it doesn’t always go that way If you’ve spent months, maybe years, in the relationship, breaking the bond can be a frightening experience…

But you have to pay attention. Can you do that? — Yea, that person you see tweaking in Kingston, or Skid Row, they have a story. Some escape and create a new story, but unfortunately most stay in the same story on repeat. All addicts have a story Their story usually involves a childhood many wouldn’t survive, but they survive it through using. Using is their…

It doesn’t fee like it now, but it’s the best thing that can happen. — Put it this way. You may think you’ll be able to handle it “if” it happens. You may “think” you will say fuck that mother fucker, I’m gone! I deserve better. I’m outta of here when it happens! Almost daring them to do it so you can just get over…

For me, a sense of self never existed it’s why I fell for the bullshit. — I had no idea who, or what I am. But I found this person that liked everything about me I didn’t know was there. She made me feel good with her words, but horrible with her actions. In a fucked up way she gave me a false sense of self…

It will be hard to fathom in the beginning, but it all comes to light in the end. — I spent years hoping, believing, wishing, trying, dying, trying to force someone to love me who didn’t. I watched time and time again as she ran off with different men with ease. It was almost like I never existed. From an outsider looking in I didn’t. I couldn’t understand how…

No relationship will survive without it. — Amy walked in from a days work looking beat the hell down. Carl knew this look. He and Amy have been together for over 24 years! They raised 2 kids that are already on their own. She walked through the kitchen and was heading upstairs to change. Carl reached out…

She asked what she can do. This is what I told her. — Do what half the US seems to do. Just forget about the little bastard. Treat it like the worthless fuck you think it is and only worry about yourself. Or You can throw it off on grandma or a sibling. They don’t have anything better to do than raise your…

Most the time it doesn’t matter what people think. — Leave your appearance as is. Many times people judge how they look from internal trauma that has nothing to do with their looks, or what others “think.” No matter what procedure you may choose to try and alter your appearance is a temporary fix. What you “think” others believe, won’t…