A “Angry” Narcissists is a Guilty Narcissist, and Here is Why

Speaking any amount of truth destroys their delusional narrative.

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Do you notice a simple question as, “Who was that text from?” triggers anger from your partner? When a Narcissist is put on the spot, they will either withdraw, Stonewall, Gaslight, or get mad as hell.

Narcissists do this to throw you off. They are conditioning you to accept their false reality, and it works! It works brilliantly! And any time the relationship appears to be going smooth, it’s because they silenced your voice! They will have you walking on eggshells in fear of bringing anything up!

I’ve been back and forth with my ex a little over four years now. I’m trying to spin each time as a lesson and not dwell on it. I learn something new each time I believe it will “work” this time.

I was to the point I was afraid to bring up anything. I feared she’d withdraw or get pissed at me. And it’s precisely what she’d do! That or Gaslight me to make me question my sanity and reality.

Here’s an example:

My ex was married AND dating a guy on the West Coast when I met her. Let’s call the West Coast guy Jack; wait, that’s another guy she had. Let’s call him Bob, no, shit, that’s by best friend she…