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Are You Confused if You’re The Victim or The Narcissist?
If you spend enough time in the abuse, insanity will set in.
A good indicator you aren’t is you are here looking for answers. You are actually questioning yourself. Narcissists question themselves if it benefits them. Because they don’t give a fuck about you.
There aren’t many Narcissists that will question if they are narcissists. But all Narcissists do play the victim and project what they do to their victims what they are doing too them. Especially the Covert. God help you if you got a hold of one of these fuckers.
Sound fucked up? That’s because it is.
It is the biggest mind fuck you will ever experience as you replay each scenario over in your mind of what actually happened. Your self-doubt will be off the charts.
If you are doubting what is going on, questioning your sanity, researching narcissism, and can’t think of anyone else except the person that abused you are good indicators you’re a victim of abuse. Are they already out fucking someone else, well? You aren’t the Narcissists, but you are probably dating one.
You won’t accept what “is” until you break free from the asshole. It would be best if you cleared your mind of all the gaslighting, projection, blame, manipulation…
