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Are You Desperate to Kill The Urge to Contact The Narcissists?
It’s a power that takes over that can’t be explained, only experienced.
Just like any addiction, it has to be handled accordingly. Sometimes the pull is too intense, and cracking is your only option. You feel the life being sucked out of you, and you must do it, right?
This won’t be popular, but it always worked for me.
Go ahead, give them a ring. I know, I know. It goes against every video you have watched, every article you have read, and everything your therapist has told you. You have to stay no contact!
It’s the only way, but is it?
Just say fuck it and kill the urge. Show them how pathetic you are and let them know how they treated you is Ok. They love it when ex’s come around and show them how “wanted” they are. The love, the validation of their abuse, is acceptable.
Because if you didn’t accept it and think it’s Ok, you wouldn’t contact them, correct? Wait, you don’t think it was Ok? But do you want to explain your side of it “again” and give them another chance? Is that what you are saying?
Hell, do what I did.
Show up at their house, work, or anywhere you know they might be. That will show them they missed…
