At What Point do You Refuse Help to Others?

Stop trying to help people who don’t want help.

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More than likely the ones trying to do all the “helping” are the ones who could use the most help.

You know how much easier it is to focus on others people shit, and not yours?

Well, I’ll tell ya, it’s pretty easy. I did it for 5–6 years with an ex. All while some of what I was trying to change in her, I needed the same change in me.

There are plenty people who are deserving of help, but finding them is a whole other challenge

Many people say they want “help,” and “change,”but when push comes to shove they fall down.

They want no part of it. If it requires any effort, discomfort, or a “snag” in the life they are living, they shit on those trying to help.

There comes a point the person who is being offered all the help might just really need to look at themselves. I mean, take a hard look at “why” people are always trying to help them, or offer advice?

Is it just the toxic people you hang around? Or are you that pathetic you can’t get your shit together, and you can’t help yourself?