At What Point Does Self-Awareness Wound a Narcissist?

The “wound” is only temporary until they secure more supply

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The biggest Narcissistic injury one can inflict on them is the truth. They can not and will not accept their abusive behavior. The minute anyone attempts to make them aware of their actions, they automatically default to “survival” mode.

Your awareness turns into their injury when:

• When you are aware enough to call them on their fucking lies and manipulation.
• When you are aware enough to call them on their delusion. Don’t you dare try to unravel the delusional life they live. This is how they survive.
• When you are aware enough to know you aren’t the Narcissist like they say, but they are.
• When you are aware enough to hold the “mirror” up to their ass and show them exactly who they are.
• When you are aware enough, you walk with no explanation. You know you deserve better and can absolutely do better.
• When you are aware enough, you don’t fall for the fake life they portray to everyone while they are the ones delivering the abuse.
• When you are aware enough, the “woe is me” tactics stop working.
• And finally, when you really see them for who they are. They are a person who…