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Can Love Eventually Turn into Hate?
Well, to believe this there there has to be “love” to begin with.
Yes, it can, and does quite often. I’ve learned people hate what they can’t change. Why do you hate someone who is being who they are?
They abuse you? Leave
They “change?” Leave
They aren’t who they portrayed? Leave
The initial problem with this theory is there has to be love to begin with. So many think they love, or they are trying to love for the wrong reasons. Many get into a committed relationship to try in fix in themselves what they aren’t aware of, or change in a partner what they can’t change in themselves.
No one wants to look at relationships that way. It’s a “fuck me now, tell me about you later” mentality most the world has fallen into.
No one wants a partner who is vested in learning about themselves, and is open to change, and accepts constructive criticism. Relationships are about careers, fucking, security, families, vacations and the most important, “delusion.”
Everyone is so hell bent on bitching about what they signed up for when the “contract” was signed. You agreed to the mother fucker. You saw what you were signing, but you were duped by what everyone else was signing, so you…
