Can someone you love turn into a Narcissist?

Here’s what happens. The person doesn’t just “turn.”

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• They never met anyone like you, right?
• The sex, the allure, the attention. A bit too much, right? But it was great, so you thought, “what the hell!?” Let’s see what happens.
• Text, phone calls non-stop, coupled with more attention. This person fucking digs you, right?
• Maybe they played a victim from past relationships. They give you a sob story of abuse on how others did them wrong. Right?
• Then, no one understands them like you! You are so damn supportive, and they have never been more motivated in their life! Right? And it’s all because of you!
• Everything you like, they like. Everything you dislike, they dislike too! You seriously think you met a twin version of yourself!
• Wait!? What? You love me already and want to move -in with one another?

You were blinded by their obsession, the sex allure, and the mirroring of your very existence.

The love you “thought” you had, ends up becoming a sick, sick trauma bond to someone that will abuse you in ways people don’t do to other humans. Well, that’s if you have emotions and feelings.

You start connecting the dots, and some things are off, way the hell off. This person can’t…