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Do Narcissists Consider The Victims They Abuse as Weak?
Possibly, because you’re choosing weakness over power.
Everyone is always talking about what power these people have over us.
When in reality, they don’t, we give it to them.
I know it doesn’t feel like it if you are in the beginning stages of this shit and trying to break free, but you have more power than you think. You can use a lifeline at any time and exit the shitty situation.
If you have kids and are financially dependent, you can start making a plan of action. I’m not saying it’s going to be easy; it’s going to be the most brutal fucking thing you will ever do in life.
But if you want any sense of normalcy again in your life, you have to realize what power and control you have over the situation, but more importantly yourself. You are choosing insanity if you stay with them and freedom if you choose to leave.
Narcissists are just like anyone else.
They are human.
But they have a keen sense of manipulation most of us will never understand even after we experience it. You will think you have it figured out and understand, but give yourself 10 mins, and you will question yourself again.
