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Do Narcissists Only Target Partners With Low Self Esteem?
Flip the script on yourself just as the narcissist does the whole relationship.
You target the Narcissist as much as they target you. They don’t “target” people, they throw the line in the water and see if they get any bites.
They don’t sit around and think, “Who’s life can I fuck up today?” They are disordered, unaware and clueless. It’s how they function throughout life.
You get in the relationship on “cloud 9” from all the attention, potential and unreal connection you think there is but there isn’t.
More than likely you thought it felt a “bit” too much, but you ignored that thing called “intuition” and went after more of the “feel goods” they were showering you with.
I read some victims say they were so secure before they met the Narcissist, but were they?
Narcissist don’t target the weak. But there are a lot of damaged people in the world. The odds are in their favor of finding them.
Maybe I’m being a little harsh because I have researched this shit so much I can see them a mile away now. Unfortunately everything is a red flag to me nowadays. I haven’t learned how to build trust yet with any new potential partner.
