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Do Narcissists Only Target Those With Low Self-Esteem?
It goes a little deeper than that. Are you ready?
Flip the script on yourself just as the Narcissist does the whole relationship.
You target the Narcissist as much as they target you. They don’t “target” people; they throw the line in the water and see if they get any bites.
They don’t sit around thinking, “Who’s life can I fuck up today?” They are disordered, unaware, and clueless. Many times they are given too much credit.
You get in the relationship on “cloud 9” from all the attention, potential, and unreal connection you think there is, but there isn’t.
More than likely, you thought it felt a “bit” too much, but you ignored that thing called “intuition” and went after more of the “feel goods” they were showering you with.
I read some victims say they were so secure before they met the Narcissist, but were they?
Narcissists don’t target the weak. But there are many damaged people in the world, and the odds are in their favor.
Maybe I’m being a little harsh because I have researched this shit so much that I can see them a mile away now. Unfortunately, everything is a red flag to me nowadays. I haven’t learned how to build trust yet with any…
