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Do Narcissists Teach Us Anything?
A whole bundle of shit if you are paying attention
There are many lessons in toxic relationships, but most aren’t aware enough to understand the lesson. We run around pointing fingers and not paying attention to what is really going on. A person can only abuse you so long before you become a willing participant in the game.
They will leave the abusive relationship in search of yet, the perfect partner. Many spend a lifetime trying to mold a person into someone that doesn’t exist nor ever will.
1. Insanity does exist. Stay with it long enough, and you will find out.
2. They teach you to rehash the past repeatedly as you try and make sense of the mind fucks.
3. They teach you that you give trust too quickly and most likely will do it again if you don’t learn from this lesson.
4. Some people can appear to have dropped from the heavens above, only to have the devil’s horns.
5. They teach; you aren’t that important. They will replace you with anything and anyone that shows them more attention than you.
6. They teach you how little your feelings mean and how to keep your mouth shut unless it involves praising them. And if you share too many, your feelings will be used against you.
