Do You Gain “Self-Esteem” by The Flaws in Others?

If you do, you are confusing Self-esteem with Ego, and insecurities.

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I’m not thrilled to admit it, but lets be honest, in a toxic way, yes. It’s an insecurity thing.

I was at my most comfortable if subconsciously I could bring people down to my level of “fuckedupness.” But more so, I loved to run with those I…