Do you know what it takes for a successful relationship?

Patience: Allow time to know them. I mean, really take time. If you are aware, it will save you a lot of heart ache, time and grief. And if they won’t take the time, you know your answer. Nothing good comes to anything rushed.

Respect: This is # uno! They respect you. You respect them. Respect isn’t given, it’s earned, on both ends. Once disrespect is shown, very rarely is it able to be repaired.

Trust: Same with respect. It takes time. Please don’t freely give it away. You will set yourself up to be with some of the most toxic assholes known to man kind.

Similarities: Be careful of those that tag you the “perfect” partner. Have some similarities, but have your own hobbies and friends too. Look for someone that helps introduce you to new experiences, places and things. As you will do for them also.

Non-Judgemental: There’s a fine line between judging, and constructive criticism. Either accept the person as they are, “total package” or set them free. Remember, we can’t change anyone no matter what we think. But those willing to take criticism from those they love, is hard to find without taking things personally.

Honesty: I’m talking about the type of honesty the partner would risk losing you, for the truth. The truth is better than a heart felt lie that shows they never respected you to begin with.

Energy: You guys need to have the same energy. I know, I know. Sometimes you aren’t full of…