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Does Cheating Portray a Lack of Love From Your Spouse?
It depends; how do you define “love?”
It not only portrays they don’t love you, but it always shows what little respect they have for you and themselves. But more importantly you.
Cheaters can justify why they cheat all day; there is never a good reason to cheat. Cheaters may “think” they love someone after cheating, but it’s usually a “the grass WASN’T greener on the other side” symptom. So please believe them! They love you “now!”
There is usually some disorder going on if they are seasoned and repeat offenders; however, some can’t help themselves and need the excitement.
If you are going to cheat, just end it with the partner. There is never a “good” reason to cheat, nor should it ever be justified.
Just leave.
They showed you how they felt about you. Then, they committed an act that risked losing you, and it did.
Move on. If not, be prepared for a lifetime of self-doubt and anxiety while constantly questioning who, what, when, and where your partner is and is doing.
Not a way to live.
Believe me, I lived it.
