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Eight interesting facts based on my experience with Trauma Bond.

Chris Freyler
Jun 14, 2021

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1. You develop a “love” for someone you will be forced to hate.

2. You will confuse the “love” you have with abuse.

3. The chemical bond trauma creates is as addictive as heroin.

4. You will crave the very person you despise.

5. Cognitive dissonance(the good/bad pull) is what creates the trauma bond.

6. Trauma bond can’t be broken until you break the cognitive dissonance.

7. You end up chasing an image that you were led to believe existed, but never did. The bond will cause you to pursue and chase an illusion you created in your own mind.

8. If you are unfortunate enough to suffer the rasp of trauma bond. It will be hands down one of the biggest challenging and heart breaking task you take in life, as you try to break it.

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Chris Freyler
Chris Freyler

Written by Chris Freyler

Mistake Maker Extraordinaire .Writing from a place I don’t understand at times. I write to help myself, in return hope it helps you. Just another Quora guy.

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