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Embrace The Negative People; They Might Say Something You Need to Hear
At times, the positivity from others is a cry for help if you are paying attention.
We all know “those” people. They don’t have time for negativity in their life, only positive thoughts! Get the fuck out of here with that shit! That’s a huge red flag to me now when dealing with friends and potential partners. If negativity isn’t allowed in my life, that’s a “you” problem, not a “me” problem. All it means is you are a walking ball of negativity wrapped in superficial positivity waiting to explode. When all that is needed is a balance.
Negativity is a way of life
It can be devastating when your mind goes down the rabbit hole of negativity. At times it can feel like there is no end in sight. And the last thing you need to hear is someone telling you to stop being negative. We are human; we have emotions. But the problem is the world is trying to condition us to have “selective” feelings. They want us to numb the fuck out.
If you feel a bit of anxiety and uneasiness, drink, mother fucker! It’s everywhere! And drinking makes everything more manageable until it doesn’t. They don’t tell you about the calm before the storm. You know?
