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Have You Ever Wanted to Call The Narcissist Out on Their Abusive Behavior?
You can if you go about it the right way
They know how they treat us is wrong; that’s the thing. They don’t FUCKING care! Your fault!
The difference between them is that we have a conscience and a healthy sense of guilt. They don’t! They despise us even though they tell us at times they can’t live without us, and we are the “one!” They tell this to everyone that crosses their path.
They don’t feel guilt! I mean, they do, but it’s not genuine, and it’s disordered guilt. Do you honestly think these assholes have feelings? How can someone treat someone like they do and keep doing it? They don’t care, that’s how! They really believe they are the victim and their behavior is loving and normal. That alone is frightening!
Any normal human would listen to the one they love and change their behavior, right? Well, the Narcissist can’t. They see you as the bully and them as the victim! If you stay with them long enough you will start to question if you’re the abusive one as they lie, cheat and manipulate you.
How many times have you told them their actions and behaviors hurt you?? 20–30x or more, right? And how many times did they correct the behavior? ZERO, right? I mean, they might temporarily, that’s if they can benefit from…
