They rush because they are unaware of what they are doing. They truly believe they found “the one.”
In their own way, they do love you. They see you as a perfect person, no flaws, no defects just as we all do in the “honey moon” phase of relationships.
Their problem is, the “honey moon” eventually ends and so does the adoration of the perfect person the narcissist sees themselves as, “through” you.
So, they continually rush into relationships chasing the perfect image of…