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How Are You Keeping Romance Alive in Your Relationship?

It generally dies off shortly after the “Honeymoon” phase of the relationship.

Chris Freyler
2 min readNov 20, 2024
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Taking her on a date, weekly, as well as being spontaneous, consistently can benefit all aspects of the relationship.

I believe most relationships eventually fizzle because you’re with the wrong person.

Relationships develop backwards nowadays in my opinion. It’s straight to swiping right, to sex, to moving in together, all while there was no time to get to know one another.

Then, instead of getting to know one another, and working through differences, one partner bails and it’s right back to the dating app repeating the cycle of hell all over again.

And let’s be honest, most people out there desperately seeking a “life” partner have no idea who they are, it’s why their search for a partner can become a frantic task. Almost desperate in a sense as their biological clock keeps ticking.

There are all kinds of ways to keep the relationship on its toes of adventure. Even if you do go the route of having kids and getting sucked into the societal norm. The problem arises when the societal norm becomes your identity, and you become just “another” couple, and not “that” couple.

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Chris Freyler
Chris Freyler

Written by Chris Freyler

Mistake Maker Extraordinaire .Writing from a place I don’t understand at times. I write to help myself, in return hope it helps you. Just another Quora guy.

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