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How Can You Stop Caring About Someone Who Doesn’t Care About You?
Look at their actions and ignore their words, that is all you need to know.
I still struggle with this. I’ve become the epitome of a broken record.
What I am learning is if you step back from the situation and look at the facts of who this person is, it can get easier. It will still be challenging as fuck because it hurts knowing the actions this person has done, and if you are like me, you want to believe the good in them.
They say the same things to everyone else they are leading on. More than likely you aren’t the only one.
Maybe they showed you an “image” of them caring and loving you. Perhaps they would smother you with the text of attention and “I love You’s” it gave you the false sense that this person cared for you when if you look at their actions, it’s anything but caring. It was manipulation.
I’ve had to go back no less than 50 times, but each time I see, I will NEVER be able to get over the hateful, mean shit she pulled on me. From running to my best friend to recently lying about dating a 70-year-old man, to knowing I was in the hospital, but she had to go out to eat and drink first before checking on me.
