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How Can You Tell if A Narcissists Misses You?
This might be confusing, but here we go.
This is another BIG misconception of Narcissists abuse. They are good at making you think they miss you, but it’s actually the complete opposite.
They are desperate, and kinda can’t stand you, despise you more like it.
In reality, they can’t stand you. They only miss what they can extract our of you. Whether it be money, sex, attention, support, etc. You have to remember something. Everything Narcissists do, good/bad is to elicit a response out of you that will benefit them. It’s that simple, and painful thing one must understand to heal.
It will take some time away from them to really see the big picture. And the picture you will see will confuse the hell out of you. You’ll never fully understand how they operate, and the longer away from them you won’t give a fuck why they do what they do.
But I can guarantee if you dated a “Covert” you will always have a sliver of doubt in the back of your mind, “maybe you were wrong.” At least in my opinion.
Just be thankful you are out of that mess if you have escaped And stay away until more and more clarity surfaces, because it will!
