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How Cutting Off Contact With A Narcissist Is Your Best Choice
And when you do, here is what happens.
A new form of peace will overcome you that you won’t understand. You will no longer be stressed and anxious-ridden, wondering who they are talking to.
You will begin to focus on yourself and dig into your own issues and not theirs. You will realize the person you were chasing never existed.
BUT on the flip side
You will start to question your sanity. You will begin to question yourself if you are the abuser. You will start ruminating about everything they said you did to them that was bad.
The projection and gaslighting will begin to eat at your soul.
You will begin to self-doubt and think, “it can work!”
You might even contact them again.
SO…What happens?
It’s up to you.
If you want more misery, go back, and live life on potential.
If you want freedom, sit in your shit and figure out why you think you deserve their abuse.
The choice is yours.
