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How do You Know if a Loved One is a Victim of Narcissistic Abuse?

When you find out, it might be too late.

Chris Freyler
2 min readSep 9, 2024
Photo by Stijn Swinnen on Unsplash

They may appear to be crazier than a shit house mouse.

They are running circles in their mind talking endless babble. Hoping, begging, pleading someone doesn’t get tired of listening to them before they break free, or self destruct.

They will tell you, and talk about some of the most outlandish forms of manipulation, and abuse that you won’t understand. And to be honest, they don’t either, it’s why they are on “repeat” and talking about it to anyone who will listen.

You will give them that “WTF is wrong with you look.” While you start to think they are crazier by the minute.

Over time, they begin to isolate and double down on whatever self destructive behavior they use to help cope with the mind fuck they don’t understand is happening.

They will confess their love, and devotion to someone who is mean as fuck, and you will be left scratching your head “why?”

Their agony will turn into your frustration as you try an talk sense into a mind that has been wired to not believe it.

They are a robot now, they aren’t themselves

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Chris Freyler
Chris Freyler

Written by Chris Freyler

Mistake Maker Extraordinaire .Writing from a place I don’t understand at times. I write to help myself, in return hope it helps you. Just another Quora guy.

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