How do You Know so Much About Narcissism?

Well, I kind of stumbled into a relationship that drove me to the brink of insanity.

Chris Freyler
2 min readFeb 9, 2024
Photo by Eduardo Flores on Unsplash

When you walk into a situation that was out of your control, but ended up controlling you, it leads to research. And not just research, it turns into your new obsession. Not only of what is wrong with your “partner” but possibly what’s wrong with you.

Victims don’t want to “know” too much. They didn’t wake up one morning and say, “let me get a PHD in the biggest soul sucking abusive person on the planet” they are forced into it for their sanity.

If they aren’t researching they are ruminating, and talking to anyone that will listen. They don’t care how embarrassing it sounds, they need answer before the drive themselves off a cliff.

Little did they know the insanity in them was festering long before the narcissists came in their life

The Narcissists was nothing but the messenger of bad news to a whirl wind of hell that was going to flip your life upside down. Maybe you were just out of a bad break up? Maybe you recently had a death in the family? Maybe you were a little more vulnerable than usual, if so, that is perfect pickings for a Narcissists.

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Chris Freyler

Mistake Maker Extraordinaire .Writing from a place I don’t understand at times. I write to help myself, in return hope it helps you. Just another Quora guy.