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How do You Know When it is Time to Leave a Relationship?
When words and actions are speaking a different language, it may be time to plan an exit.
I still struggle with this question. I question if I tried everything possible, and I believe I have. I tried to understand where all the cheating and lies were coming from. I wanted to believe every time she said she was “sorry” but her actions spoke a different language.
I am now working on my overthinking. I can overthink with the best of them. I will have my answers, they will drop right in my lap. But I will analyze it to my detriment, and it backfires on me.
People can make mistakes that hurt people close to them. If someone loves you as they say, they will do everything in their power to correct the situation and not repeat the hurtful behavior. Her repeated lies and manipulation were all I needed to know, but I couldn’t believe it, my denial ran deep.
Below is a list I put together from my experiences on when it’s time to “check out” of a relationship and start doing inner work to not repeat with a future partner.
1. Lies: The stories keep falling short of the truth. White lie, major lie, etc they just never stop.
2. Manipulation: You partner makes you question your sanity. They say one thing and do another. And if you call…
