How Does Going No Contact With A Narcissist Affect Them?

They can shut feelings off with the flip of a switch, nauseating, I know.

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I know you so desperately want them to miss you the way you miss them. You want the person back that showered you with attention when you first met.

The person who appeared to be the person you’ve been searching for your whole life.

They said they loved you.

They said you were their “one.”

They had everything in common with you.

They said they’ve never felt this way about anyone else before.

They said no one like you has ever understood them.

How does going no contact affect them?

• They are balls deep or legs wide open with a new supply right now; who are you?
• They are still drinking every night without a care in the world.
• They are thinking, “what a controlling, manipulative, narcissistic asshole you are.”
• They randomly have a thought of how annoying your needy ass was.
• They will think about you if their new “clueless wonder” misbehaves.
• They are constantly checking up on your social media to see when, not if they need you, how to attack.

Bottom line, it doesn’t affect them, not at first. But when the new “prize” loses its shine, you will be right back in the mix!!

Is that what you want?