How does one discover their true self?

Nothing grows in the Garden of Comfort.

My opinion won’t be a popular one, but here’s the hidden gem.

What you do, is you date a real toxic asshole.
I’m talking about a person so mean to you; it makes you question your sanity, self-worth, and reality.

When you think you can’t take anymore, they will probably get rid of you, or maybe you dare to…



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Chris F

Chris F


Mistake Maker Extraordinaire .Writing from a place I don’t understand at times. I write to help myself, in return hope it helps you. Just another Quora guy.