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How Falling Victim to Narcissist Abuse has Nothing to do With Intelligence
When most realize what is happening, it’s too late; you’re hooked.
Falling for a Narcissist has nothing to do with your IQ or how smart you are. Some of the most intelligent people in the world can lack self-awareness.
The problem is most people that get involved with a Narcissist aren’t educated in Narcissistic abuse. Yea, maybe they have dated an asshole or a cheater, but to date, a “real” Cluster B personality is like walking into a new dimension. One that you never knew existed. Then when you first arrive, it is the most beautiful experience you’ve ever had! You will be pinching yourself to check if this is all a dream.
Then BAM!
The confusion begins to set in. You are running in circles, and to every corner, in this new dimension, you found looking for an exit.
Exiting is the most challenging part once you enter. It has nothing to do with how smart you are. The problem lies with what you didn’t know. And no book or schooling could teach you about this experience.
It’s almost like a hidden dimension. Some enter this dimension and don’t even know they are there; they are the unfortunate ones. They forever stay waiting to catch a glimpse of what…