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How Gaslighting Destroys its Intended Target

Until you realize what is going on it’s about as damaging as it can get.

Chris Freyler
2 min readSep 9, 2024
Photo by Jeremy Bishop on Unsplash

Gaslighting is a form of emotional abuse where one person’s psychological manipulation causes another person to question their reality. Gaslighters undermine the trust a person has in their reality, leading victims to doubt their memory, perception, and sanity-Wikipedia

It’s the most damaging form of mental torture another human can do to another. It’s happening every where, especially in our media.

The kind of abuse that leaves you doubting your reality and sanity, while the victim is left taking on a delusion that makes more sense.

It’s a horrible place to be when you’ve been gaslighted so bad you begin to possibly blame yourself, or believe in a reality that makes you appear like the lunatic.

I’d rather be physically abused than gaslighted.

Physical abuse is obvious, and you know it’s happening. Gaslighting on the other hand, can do months, maybe years of damage before you even catch a little glimpse to what is going actually going on.

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Chris Freyler
Chris Freyler

Written by Chris Freyler

Mistake Maker Extraordinaire .Writing from a place I don’t understand at times. I write to help myself, in return hope it helps you. Just another Quora guy.

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