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Finding Life Purpose After Narcissists Abuse

Not only is it essential, but it’s also imperative to live a quality life.

Chris Freyler
2 min readMay 19, 2023
Photo by Jordan Madrid on Unsplash

A life of no purpose is a life of aimless wander with misery in sight.

Most get lost in the wrong purpose, or should I say confused about their purpose. Just because someone says they have a purpose doesn’t mean it’s true.

Does everyone have a purpose?

I question this myself a lot.

How about abusive people? Do they have a purpose?

Is it their purpose in life to go around delivering havoc and destruction on others so the victim is forced to find their purpose? Is that the reason for abusive people? Is that “their” purpose?

Then, after the abuse is delivered, what if the victim’s primary purpose in life becomes escaping, not the abuse, but themselves?

Many victims can be years out of the abuse but are still abused. The abuser is long gone, but it has become the victim’s subconscious purpose to abuse themselves and others around them.

Abuse changes purpose and people. It can give the abused a new sense of purpose they never knew existed.

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Chris Freyler
Chris Freyler

Written by Chris Freyler

Mistake Maker Extraordinaire .Writing from a place I don’t understand at times. I write to help myself, in return hope it helps you. Just another Quora guy.

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