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How Many Have Been Through REAL Narcissists Abuse?
There are more that don’t talk about it than those who do.
The real ones won’t write about it. They are those who lay, weep, pray, and read in silence in my opinion. Wanting the nightmare to end, but they are too paralyzed to take action.
There are the few that come out of silence, to be and feel heard, but most isolate, and suffer. There are many abusers reading, writing and believing they are victims, when all they did was drive the real victim into reactive mode. And once the real victim hits that state, you know? Reactive? That’s where the real confusion begins. It’s fucked up.
I started writing on Narcissism 5 years ago. Was she a narcissists? Beats the fuck out of me, but she sure fit all the criteria. If anything, this whole obsession into the life of a narcissists has really fucked me the hell up.
Since leaving her, I’ve realized just how fucked up I am, not her. I have some serious shit going on, and that shit is childhood trauma.
No one wants to hear this, nor accept it.
But the level of fucked up you have to be to put up with the level of abuse a Narcissists can dish out is outlandish. Yea, if you stay more than say, 3 months, you are as whacked as they are.
