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How Many Supposed “Victims” Are Actually The Narcissists?
I’d say you’d be terrified if we knew the stats.
I believe it’s more common than you think. And it can be very damaging to the real victims trying to make sense of the situation.
Most victims won’t write on this shit, nor share their experiences. They are embarrassed, ashamed, confused and in pain.
They are the ones who read in silence, and say nothing. Hoping, searching, reading for some form of relief.
The “real” victims are the ones asking the questions over on Quora. At least that’s what I did four years ago. I didn’t know what the fuck I was experiencing. I was looking for anything to try and make sense to the insanity. I didn’t want to believe what I was reading.
If you look at my question count over on Quora it’s over 200, and all those were in a matter of 3–4 months. I was obsessed, confused and miserable.
I wasn’t getting what I needed from the answers so I started answering the question from MY experiences.
And the moment I did is when it all began to make sense.
People were relating, and in a big way.
I get DM’s from people thanking me for answers that I have never seen an upvote from, nor do they…
