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How to Spot a Narcissist Before It’s Too Late
3 min readOct 24, 2021
Spotting a Narcissist in the early stages is a game changer
- I love you!: They will drop “I love you” quicker than they drop their pants in the bedroom. They will have you falling for them before you realize what hit you! They will use sex to create a toxic bond.
- Obsession: In the very beginning, they will seem almost obsessed with you. You are their everything!? “Where have you been their whole life!” They NEVER have, and I mean NEVER met anyone like you!
- Text: Non-stop, I mean, non-stop. Did I mention non-stop? They will flood you with attention. And for an insecure person, you will think, “my lord, someone finally gets me!” you will think you hit the jackpot! “Why is this person single?!” You will think. Soon you will find out!
- Pathological Lying: You know, “Oops, I didn’t tell you I was married?!” “Yes, we are just friends!” “I have never felt this way about anyone!” In the end, you will see the lies never stop. NEVER
- Friends: They will have no “true” friends. You may hear about best friends but never see them, nor do they talk to them. They will always say you need to meet “blank” when in reality, they rarely, if ever speak, to this person. Their friends are on a very superficial, shallow level.
- Victim: Get ready. They will play the…