I agree. That’s why I have such guilt for my ex. I was pushed to limits I didn’t want to be and then would react out of anger. I believe it’s a normal response. But I kept myself in that situation too long thinking o could help her find her way.

She didn’t want help. It amazes me how they don’t see it. Although I think they do, it’s their denial they can’t get past.

It really is sad if you think about it.