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I Challenge You to Treat The Narcissists Like They Treat You

A little dose of their own medicine never hurt anyone.

Chris Freyler
2 min readApr 25, 2023
Photo by Denny Müller on Unsplash

What do you mean by mean to them? Rarely is someone mean to them. The victim gets into an obsessed trance of “utter bliss” that they found this ONE person that is so into them with so much in common! They are pinching themselves, making sure this isn’t a dream. How the hell is this person single?

The Narcissist is everything you ever wanted in life and takes every insecurity you had away. You have waited your whole life for someone like this, and they finally appeared! Why would you be mean to them?

Oh, shit…wait, you mean will they leave if you get tired of their shit and call them on it? Or wait, you mean when you find out they have been lying and cheating on you and you snap, is that it?

Then you blow your lid and lay into the asshole because you are devastated? You’ve finally had enough of all the crazy shit and lost your mind on them a time or two, right?

What did you do? Did you slip up and tell them how you really feel and what their behaviors are doing to you?

Did you go back thinking they changed, and you would be able to erase all the horrible behaviors from your mind and act as if everything is normal? But your…

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Chris Freyler
Chris Freyler

Written by Chris Freyler

Mistake Maker Extraordinaire .Writing from a place I don’t understand at times. I write to help myself, in return hope it helps you. Just another Quora guy.

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