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I Love You. I Have Your Back
Something so simple, can seem impossible at times.
Relationships, or hell, life for that matter, is a battle. Every-single-one of us have some kind of “shit” we are dealing with, we all struggle in one way or another.
Dealing with “stuff” alone is the easier route, but I believe humans are wired for human connection.
With human connection will come stressors. But with that connection you have to ask; “What it is you are seeking?” If you are seeking connection to save someone, or fix you, you are seeking for the wrong reasons. If you are seeking to explore yourself, and learn from others, then you are on the right path.
It wasn’t until recently I discovered I was “seeking” for all the wrong reasons. I either wanted to fix, or be fixed, and that’s not how relationships work. Relationships are for growing, and learning, not for fixing, or filling a void in yourself or others.
I am becoming more, and more aware of just how harsh I can be. Not only with myself, but to others. Sometimes people need to hear the brutal truth.
Sometimes people need to be “woken” up with a reality check. But more times than not, all they need is a little reassurance that “they” are OK, even when they feel like they’re not. But hearing “you’re OK” by someone you…
