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If a Narcissist Has a “Side Piece,” Are They Still Terrified to Lose You?

They’re terrified of many things, but losing you isn’t one of them.

Chris Freyler
3 min readAug 2, 2023
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You forgot something; they’re terrified of losing what you have to offer, not you. They don’t love you; they don’t even like you. You have to benefit them in some way and never question their behaviors. Remember, everything a narcissist does is to elicit a response out of you that benefits them and them only.

The illusion they make you believe

They are great at making it look like they care and love you, but you will see it with a different lens if you get away from them. They are very good at hiding their intentions for their actions. When they aren’t speaking lies, their actions are showing them. But you have to get away from them long enough to let the fog clear to get an up close and personal look at what you are dealing with.

As long as you’re a good little obedient slave, they will be terrified of losing you. They keep that chain around your fucking neck, and you don’t even know it is there until one day, you look in their mirror and see the scars.

It’s scary shit how they can lead you around by some imaginary chain that doesn’t exist; it does, but at a subconscious level.

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Chris Freyler
Chris Freyler

Written by Chris Freyler

Mistake Maker Extraordinaire .Writing from a place I don’t understand at times. I write to help myself, in return hope it helps you. Just another Quora guy.

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