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If I Could be a Dog, Life Would be Different
Five traits that make a horrible friend.
You just got a message. You are a little older, and set in your ways, but this person likes your writings, or maybe related to a YouTube video you posted.
You two vibe, share experiences, different interest, and it just seems like a GOOD friendship.
Can Male/Female be friends? I think so, but there are a lot of variables that go in with that. One, you can NEVER have a sexual relationship, EVER. That’s why I’ll never understand how people say they are friends with their ex’s. No, not possible in my opinion. I had dated two girls who said they were “friends” with an ex, that shit didn’t go well.
But yea, I think they can. Not everyone has a motive, but you two have to be clear with one another what the relationship is right out of the gate. Because, lets be honest, if the opposite sex, reaches out to the other sex, there are usually motives, or agendas lying in the wake. They are waiting for the “right” moment to take their “shot” so to speak. But NOT always.
So, lets forget about what sex the friend is, but what makes a friend a HORRIBLE one?
- Convenience. Are they available when you need them? Within reason? I’m not saying they have to drop everything when you call, or text…
