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If You Are Testing The Dating Pool be Prepared to be Cheated on

Come one, come all! A Piece of ass for everyone!

Chris Freyler
4 min readJul 14, 2023
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Raise your hand if you have been cheated on? No?

Ok, Raise your hand if you have cheated? Be honest. Yes, the time you hid a drunken kiss from your partner at that party is cheating.

Silencing your notifications on your phone so your partner doesn’t hear the messages is cheating too.

Is it just me, or does it seem like everyone has been cheated on? And a good handful of your friends have actually cheated, too?

I know, young and dumb or too much alcohol is their excuse. But at what point do we stop making excuses for disordered people? Yea, I said it, disordered. In my opinion, most serial cheaters have some untreated Personality Disorder. They can’t help themselves. They need constant validation to feel alive and worthy.

And it doesn’t matter who gets hurt in their quest escape. Not THEIR problem!

Types of cheating

Cheating can happen in a couple different ways. My ex always loved to tell me she only had an “emotional” affair with her husband. Boy, oh, boy, she always had an excuse for everyone she cheated on! She has cheated on everyone she has dated! That was the…

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Chris Freyler
Chris Freyler

Written by Chris Freyler

Mistake Maker Extraordinaire .Writing from a place I don’t understand at times. I write to help myself, in return hope it helps you. Just another Quora guy.

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