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If You Don’t Have Hater’s You’re Living Life Wrong
Being a “yes” person is no way to go through life.
I’m terrified of someone not liking me or not thinking I’m a “good” guy. But I’m to the point I don’t give a fuck anymore.
Some people don’t deserve the “good” guy and deserve the “vicious” guy that lays dormant.
Being a “nice” guy won’t get you anywhere but a lot of disrespect and aggravation. In other words, you can be nice and vicious when need be.
There has to be a balanced medium. It’s hard to accept not everyone will like you.
What’s even harder to accept is you can’t control who does and doesn’t. And what’s even more challenging is not giving a fuck.
We are all flawed in some way. But, in my opinion, those who are meant to like me will, and those who don’t weren’t meant to be in my life.
Trying to figure out people’s motives and agendas in life gets exhausting. I can’t really remember what life was like five years ago, away from all the gaslighting, projection, and manipulation.
Fuck, I mean, what was I like? I have no fucking clue because I can’t remember.
People say things about me, and it hurts. Being in the constant hunt for approval is a horrible place to be.
