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If You Have These 9 Qualities You Are a High Value Partner
Most get wrapped up in the superficial qualities that have little, to no value.
When you first meet a potential partner, what is the initial draw to them? I’d say the majority would answer sex appeal, or appearance as number one. That’s the basics of all potential relationships.
I agree, we have to be sexually attracted for sure, but there is far more to it as you know.
I spent six years with what I believed to be a Narcissists, or at least someone with strong traits, co-morbid with another form of Cluster B Disorder. Once she began cheating, pulling away, becoming distance and not available, what did I do? I chased. It was a disaster to say the least.
I had friends and family asking me, “What is it you see in this girl?”
Looking back, the qualities I liked in her, wouldn’t make a great partner, or “team mate” for that matter. Of course, I was attracted to her, at least that’s what I thought. The sex was great back then, but again, I didn’t have a plethora of experience, so anything was better than a 12 year marriage with no sex the last five years I experienced before dating her.
